Hey there,
Lakita here. I just thought I’d sit here with my coffee, cigarettes and my “I’m fucking sad” playlist and put this virtual pen to virtual paper after a really long time. I’m not actually sad, just a little irritated.
Today marks four months for my newfound romance with the most amazing girl in the world. She’s a real keeper and not the kind that plays football. A real stunner and a great listener. I can’t find a single flaw about her except for the fact that she comes from a very sheltered household and still has a curfew. I don’t know how I’ve been without her for so long, but this girl listens, man. She not only listens, she analyzes and understands, then she offers her best reply. I like it when she vents. She’s still getting the hang of opening up to me, but she’s getting there. I like learning new things about her every day that I’m with her and I like that she learns new things about herself that she didn’t know existed.
‘Read my mind’ by The Killers just started and it couldn’t be more perfectly timed right now. I think about her so hard when I hear this track that I think it was made specifically for us, you know?
I still wonder what she sees in me. Every day, I do. What is it that makes her love me this much? I’m damaged to the point of no return and I’ve experienced so much trauma. On top of all that, I’ve done things I’m not proud of. Most of which I’ve told her about, but yet, she looks past all of that and calls me strong. She’s even proud that I’m still hanging on and that I’m alive. It’s as though angels ARE real and that one of them has been sent to me. Or maybe she sought me out of her own volition. This young woman, beautiful and pure, found me at my lowest point and pulled me out of that place. I may only be halfway out, but she’s still pulling. Nothing or no one can make her let go unless I pull my hands away and let myself fall back there. I won’t do that, though. I like healing. Healing with her is amazing. She’s the cage I didn’t know I needed. The cage to bind me to the land of the living. Not the land of simply existing. The kind of living where I want to wake up every day and greet the day with that ‘Good morning’ text from her. She gives my life color and when she’s near me, I swear everything has a pulse. Everything is alive.
Yesterday, I lost my words. The words I wanted to say to her when I was so overwhelmed by how much I love her, the words that were nowhere to be found. All I could do was hold her and my eyes welled up with tears she didn’t see because I got rid of them so fast. Someday she won’t have to leave because there will come a day when her home is also my home. I wonder if she knows that my home doesn’t even feel like a home to me. My home is wherever she is. The place she lays her sweet head and everywhere she is, that’s where my real home is.
I wonder if she knows how at peace I feel when she lets me rest my head on her shoulder and sleep there as she holds me like a fragile thing. She’s asleep right now and I hope she dreams of only pleasant things. I love her and I want to give her the world. Or as much of it as I can, however little that may be.
Here’s to you, Maryam. The lantern that lights my way through the darkest of paths, the extra push to get out of bed each day and the beating in my once-still heart.
I love you.